We Can Help You Get Through This Betrayal

We help couples navigate the confusion after betrayal with clarity, compassion, and structure. With us, you can finding your footing again.

Betrayal doesn't have to be the end of the relationship, and it matters you and your spouse both feel comfortable with your therapist. Let's find out who can be the right fit for your relationship.

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The quality of your life ultimately depends on the quality of your relationships.

-Esther Perel

We Can Help You Achieve...

Emotional Safety

Honesty and vulnerability happens when you feel safe, and being honest and vulnerable increases safety.

Breaking the Cycle

What happened is not just about behaviors. More clarity on the cycle and what gets you stuck get you our of the cycle.

Rebuilding Trust

Trust is work, and it is a choice. Understanding the whole picture helps you to rebuild the trust you lost in your relationship.

Renewed Connection

It feels like you are against each other right now, but you can be on the same team, through leaning how to turn towards each other.

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Experiences with Lighthouse Trauma Therapy

Given the trajectory things were heading two years ago, had we not found you and received the trauma education, empathy, listening without shaming, and paradigm shifts we received at Lighthouse, it is quite possible that we would not be married today. The shame and pain building in me could have led me down a dark and tragic path.

I will be forever grateful that my therapist stepped in and, in a very real way, saved us.

Husband, 40s

Lighthouse Trauma Therapy’s counselors truly listened, gently guided us, and walked alongside us through the process. They helped us realize that we didn’t need to be "fixed", we needed to learn how to communicate and understand each other’s needs. Lighthouse gave us the clarity to get on the same page and communicate with intention. We gained the skills, tools, and shared language to build a stronger, deeper bond. Our marriage is meaningfully stronger because of it.

Husband, 30s

My experience at Lighthouse Trauma Therapy was exceptional. My therapist was highly skilled and relatable, and always made me feel comfortable while still being direct and telling me what I needed to hear. She helped me win my life back by helping me heal from the inside out.

I’m now in the best place I have ever been personally, and I’m incredibly grateful for the care I received. I highly recommend Lighthouse Trauma Therapy.

Wife, 30s

Healing A Marriage Takes More Than Talk

Understand Yourself

Relationship takes two of you, and understanding yourself means understanding your relationship as well. Healing a marriage starts with healing You.

Take Ownership

Learn what belongs to you, and what doesn't. Accountability creates safety, not power difference. Taking ownership and learning to let got what doesn't belong to you is a crucial part of healing.

Turn Towards Each Other

Reaching out for connection or responding to connect can feel vulnerable. Turning towards each other takes practice, especially when the conversation feels difficult.

Keep Choosing "Us"

One conversation doesn't heal a marriage. A marriage heals when you keep choosing to show up to yourself, to your partner, and to your relationship.

About Lighthouse Trauma Therapy

We believe that even the most painful seasons of a relationship can become the beginning of healing. We help couples navigate betrayal, trauma, and emotional disconnection by creating a safe, structured space where both partners can feel heard, understood, and supported as they work toward lasting change.

Our therapists are specially trained in couples dynamics and have extensive experience helping couples navigate the aftermath of betrayal. Using evidence-based approaches such as EFT, the Gottman Method, EMDR/ART, CBT, and IFS, we tailor therapy to your relationship. Rather than focusing on blame or taking sides, we help you understand the patterns keeping you stuck and create new ways of connecting with honesty, empathy, and emotional safety.

Our goal isn't just to help you understand what happened—it's to help you change what happens between you, because healing begins when couples learn to turn towards each other again.

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GOT QUESTIONS?

We've got answers

Will the therapist take sides?

No, our job is not about deciding who's in the right/wrong. There's no sides in marriage because you are a team. and if you feel like there's sides in your marriage, that's a sign that couples therapy might be a good fit for you. We help you to 1. understand your own emotions, 2. express your experience and perspective, and 3. help you practice receiving and understanding your partner's perspective without having to decide who's right.

What actually happen in a session?

In our first sessions, we get clear on what’s been happening in your relationship and what you both want to change.

Then we start to notice the pattern you get stuck in—like one person reaching while the other pulls away, or conversations escalating and shutting down.

From there, we slow things down in real time so you can understand what’s happening in those moments and start responding differently to each other.

The goal isn’t just to talk about the problem—it’s to help you actually shift how you interact so things feel calmer, clearer, and more connected.

What if my partner won't open up?

There must be a reason why your partner is hesitant to open up. We will explore that together, by making the space they need to be able to express it. There are some ways to help your partner feel more comfortable opening up in therapy, and we know how to help.

How are you different from other therapists?

What sets us apart is that we don’t just focus on communication—we focus on the pattern underneath it.

We help couples understand why they keep getting stuck in the same arguments, where one person reaches and the other pulls away, and how that cycle takes over even when both people are trying.

We also use a trauma-informed approach, which helps us understand how past experiences show up in how you react, shut down, or protect yourself in your relationship today.

In sessions, we are direct, compassionate, and active in the process. We don’t take sides, and we don’t stay passive while patterns repeat. Instead, we help you slow things down in real time so you can respond differently and start reconnecting.

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